Your Job is NOT your Purpose

I was sitting on the couch watching tv church on Youtube about a month ago. I’ve got my tea in one hand and my husband’s hand in the other. My pastor started talking about the pressure he has felt to meet the world’s expectations and how hard it is to …

When your work feels like Groundhog Day again

“What would you do if you were stuck in one place AND everyday was exactly the same AND nothing you did mattered?” -Phil Connors, Groundhog Day Ever had that feeling? I mean really, who hasn’t? A study on wellbeing conducted by the CDC in 2010 confirmed that it’s happening to …

Three little words that will kill your motivation every time

Do you ever catch yourself saying things like… I have to be on the departmental Zoom call at 10am. I have to drive carpool three times this week. I have to get to the grocery store today. I have to stop eating those Cheez-Its®.   Me too. Cheez-Its® are the …

Know Your Personality

Recently I read Holy Ambition by author and pastor, Chip Ingram, where he said this: “One of the most amazing things that I have discovered in the last twenty-five years as a pastor is how few people understand how God made them.” I couldn’t agree more Chip. That’s why I’m passionate …

How to Tell if You’re Wearing a Personality Mask

How to Tell if you're wearing a personality mask

We’re all wearing masks these days. What used to be reserved for scheming bank robbers and playful trick-or-treaters, has now become a must-have in all of our daily wardrobes. Crazy times, huh? There is a mask, however, that no one should ever wear: a personality mask. WHAT IS A PERSONALITY …

When No One is Speaking your Love Language

Each of us has our own love language or combination of love languages that must be spoken in order to fill our love tank. Your love language is usually different than the love language of those around you, meaning they’ll have to learn a new language if you are going …

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How Full is Your Love Tank?

Your Love Tank Today, Valentine’s Day, is a great time to ponder this question, How full is your love tank?  Have you ever considered that you have a love tank? According to Gary Chapman, therapist and author of the classic book, The Five Love Languages, we all have an emotional love tank, …

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How to avoid an identity crisis in 2020

Right now, this very minute, are you crystal clear on who you are or what you’re supposed to do? I’m not.  I’m working through a slight identity crisis in my business. An identity crisis is a period of uncertainty in your definition & direction. That’s where I am. I’m trying …

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Is There MORE to You Than You Know?

A few months ago, I pulled out my goals from 2015, and smiled because frankly, I’ve come a long way baby. Goal 1: Pay off Car (Done. And passed it on to my college daughter.) Goal 2: Get New Carpet (Done. And sold that house.) Goal 3: Start Dating (Done. …

How to Overcome Negativity and Lies

The Happiness Advantage The Happiness Project Hardwiring Happiness Positive Intelligence These are all titles of books on my bookshelf because 1. I’m into positivity, 2. I’ve needed help to overcome negativity and 3. because happiness is trending these days. Currently there are over 40,000 books about happiness listed on Amazon. …